We all know the importance of goal
setting. Goals give you a purpose, a direction. They
can also give you a filter, a way to say
“no”
to things that will distract you from achieving those
goals. Because the whole point of setting goals in
the first place is to achieve something, I’d rather
talk about goal achieving.
Probably the most common advice I’ve
heard on making your goals a reality is to
write
them down. And, write them down every day.
For some people this works great. However, it never seemed
to do anything for me. Then, I heard another way to approach
it – visualization. Now, that worked
for me. As a matter of fact, it’s what I’d always
done. I just knew if I could see it, I could make it happen.
I began to think about the difference and
realized this coincided with a common adult learning
approach. People usually have a predominate
style of learning – kinesthetic, auditory,
or visual. What I realized is that since I’m a very
visual person, visualization worked wonders for me. I am not
at all kinesthetic so the act of writing
things down never did connect. I’m also somewhat auditory
so I use relaxation and affirmation tapes at night when I
go to sleep.
There are lots of ways to use these styles
in helping you achieve your goals. If you’re visual
learner like me, visualization is great. When you visualize,
be as detailed as possible and include all
of your senses. How will it look? How will it feel? How will
it smell? How will it sound? How will it taste? For example,
if your goal is a vacation at the ocean, you can visualize
the beach – the sand, the water, the piers.
You can also feel the cool ocean breeze on your skin
and the sand between your toes (skip the part about sand in
your bathing suit!). You can smell the salt in the air. You
can hear the waves as they crash on the beach. And, you can
taste the savory seafood at your favorite
restaurant.
Besides lots of details and including your
senses, it helps if you can emotionalize your goal.
Imagine how you will feel when you’ve achieved it. For
your ocean vacation goal, feel how relaxed you’ll be,
how much fun you have building sand castles
or playing in the surf. Finally, be sure and visualize as
if it’s already happened.
For the visual folks, you can also create
a picture album of what you want. For example, get
a photo of the car of your dreams. If you want an exotic
vacation, get photos of the destination. You can
create a flier that has graphics surrounding your list of
goals.
For
you kinesthetic types, writing down your
goals is a great place to start. But, don’t stop there.
If one of your goals is a new car, go get a model of it at
a toy store (actually, the toy store for big kids, Sharper
Image, has some pretty impressive models). You could create
a little sand box with shells in it to help
you stay focused on that ocean vacation. If you're not sure
a sandbox would be appreciated at work, try one of those Zen
rock gardens. Let the kid in you come out and play.
When we were kids, we used lots of props and toys to help
us imagine what we’d be when we grew up. There’s
no reason that can’t work for us as adults, too.
If you’re an auditory
kind of person, create audio recordings of
your goals. You can also use music to reinforce them. For
example, back to our ocean vacation – you can listen
to a CD with ocean sounds on it while you’re working.
Somewhere
in here you knew I had to bring in technology, right? Well,
here are a few
ideas. For the visual among us, use your wallpaper
on your computer desktop and your screensaver
to show pictures of your goals. If you have Windows XP, all
you have
to do is put your pictures in a folder and point your screensaver
to that folder. Email me if you want specific help creating
your screensaver. You can find plenty of photos online
that can represent your goals. If a car is your goal, go to
the manufacturer’s website and copy a picture of the
model and color you want. If you want a beach vacation, find
your dream resort. They have fabulous pictures
of their properties. You could also use custom mouse pointers.
There are different options that come with Windows and you
can get more online.
For the auditory folks, add custom sounds
to actions on your computer.
Obviously
you can listen to CDs. If you have a high-speed Internet connection,
you could also listen to Internet
radio of there’s a station that will help you
achieve your goals. You might also explore
listening to audiobooks to improve your skills
if you have trouble keeping up with your reading. A great
resource is www.audiobooks.com. These can be put on CDs or
a portable player. I like to listen to these as I walk around
the park.
If you’re kinesthetic, there are plenty
of software programs that let you type in lots of information
about your goals and your progress in achieving them. For
links to some of these (and other tools), go to http://www.triciasantos.com/goals.htm.
You can also use different means to pop
up reminders on your screen. One way you could use
this is to have a reminder each morning of what you want to
accomplish that day.
A final technology tip is to use the right
tool for the job. One of the best ways to achieve
your goals is to use your time and energy as effectively as
possible. If there’s a way to let the computer do something
for you, let it.
One last suggestion…don’t
forget your sense of smell. At the start of last
year, someone gave me a prosperity candle.
Now, whenever I do bookkeeping, I have that candle burning
(I’ve bought quite a few in the past year). It reminds
me to think abundantly and to be thankful for all
that I have. It’s turned a dreaded chore into
a positive experience.