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How
to be a Beacon in a 40-Watt World
Cinnamon toast - my favorite breakfast as
a young child. No oatmeal, puuuuuhlease.
Day in and day out, when my mother asked me what I wanted
for breakfast, my usual response was the same, “cinnamon
toast, please.”
It was cinnamon toast that brought me the
first opportunity to experience “applied creativity.”
I remember one morning when mother was very busy and didn’t
ask what I wanted. She just made cinnamon toast. It
was a morning though, when my 2-1/2 year old self wanted plain
toast. Not wanting to upset my mother, I was confident I could
“fix” this situation myself.
I’d learned to wash dishes and figured
if I could clean plates by washing them with soap and water,
certainly I could wash the cinnamon off my toast and get what
I wanted. I pushed my step stool to the sink and climbed up
the steps to reach the water faucet. I stood there, momentarily,
gleeful with my “solution.” I held my piece of
cinnamon toast under the faucet and turned on the water. Imagine
my surprise.
In Disney World there is a vignette
showcasing imagination and its sidekick "Figgie"
(as in figment). Figgie may have been the rebel
that sparked the idea to “wash” the cinnamon off
my toast. It may have been the pesky little character that
nudged me to go ahead and try an out-of-the-box idea.
Or, figment may have been a form of my Royal Spirit
urging me to take a risk, express my creativity and
learn from the process. The memory of mother’s loving
laughter as I sobbed through my explanation for putting the
toast under the running water may have been the encouragement
that nurtured my willingness to seek innovative solutions
and risk expressing creativity.
It’s innovation, creativity and figments
of imagination that come to mind for this month’s Royal
Spirit Alive! Y.E.S. Showcase. Each of the three
Triad-area women featured here is an amplified
voice for championing creative genius. They exude a compelling
drive to honor their intuition and have allowed
their diverse experiences, along circuitous paths,
to strengthen their ability to listen to it. Let’s meet
this month’s expressions of Royal Spirit Alive!
Y.E.S. (You Expressing Spirit) Showcase
Being in Service
Two
venues with similar dynamics is a way to describe the dual
roles filled by Yvonne Johnson, Executive
Director, One Step Further, and Mayor Pro Tem, City
of Greensboro. Yvonne views her role as a catalyst
to help groups of people who have a vision get a great part
of that vision. “I just feel compelled to use my gifts
and talents to do something, no matter how minute, to make
things a little bit better in this particular time.”
Yvonne’s strength of character allows her to unite her
talents and skills with inventiveness “to do what is
in the highest and best interests and good of all the people
– ALL of the people.”
For Yvonne, building strength
of character and learning to be secure in all parts of her
was a journey that evolved “bit, by bit, by bit.”
She uses the metaphor of a jigsaw puzzle
to describe that journey, citing family influence, scouting,
and Bennett College as foundational pieces
in her strength-of-character puzzle. “Every piece that
you can get to fit strengthens the love you have for yourself
and makes that picture of wholeness.”
Overcoming fear added other
character building “pieces.” Early in her career,
Yvonne recognized that her ideas weren’t what most people
thought, yet they made sense to her and she felt they
were great ideas. She was afraid to speak
in front of people, however, as she feared not being
accepted, being laughed at and ostracized. To disarm her fears,
she sought out tools that helped her embrace
her out-of-the-box ideas. She says there’re many tools
to help you get beyond your fears and she says it’s
important to find one that’s comfortable for you and
that works for you. She encourages individuals to be vigilant
once a commitment is made and not let two or three
bum attempts stop you. “Keep going,”
is her strong advice.
Yvonne’s
tips to be bold and express from your highest self:
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“Love
yourself – if you know that something is not good
for you – it’s really piercing your being,
the essence of your being – get out of it.”
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“Deliberately
nurture yourself – it’s a demonstrated affirmation
of ‘I remember I am loved by me.” |
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“Give
yourself another chance – you don’t have to
be so severe, so hard on yourself and so unforgiving of
your human frailty that you can’t give yourself
another chance.” |
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“Use
a little of your time playing and while you’re playing,
use a lot of that time laughing.” |
Being on the Forefront
Speaking
up for your beliefs can be life threatening. Such
was the early experience of Gabrielle Beard,
Co-founder and President of the Women and Wisdom Foundation.
Mississippi was her home
state, the tumultuous ‘60’s Civil Rights
Movement was the time, and Gabrielle was on the progressive
side of the social change/social action continuum
- a dangerous place to be. She was part of a group pushing
her alma mater to be the first college to integrate
without court order. And, when she went to work as
literary editor for a “liberal” paper in the Delta,
her articles were not mirrors of current rhetoric and were
not totally flattering and accepting of Mississippi’s
policies. She received harsh criticism from colleagues, family
and friends, hate mail and finally was run out of town. “I
didn’t think I was a courageous person. I was
a rebel always, but I got courage in a hurry because I had
to.”
Today, Gabrielle expresses gratitude for those
early experiences and says they’ve held her in good
stead to do the work she is doing now. She and her partner,
Cass Catlett, co-founded the Women and Wisdom Foundation
in 2001. Women and Wisdom is based on the idea that women
have something special to offer and if it’s not brought
forth in ourselves and in others, we won’t be doing
our part. Gabrielle shares a Chinese proverb that
says women hold up half the sky and emphasizes the
importance of women exercising all of their rights and responsibilities
in order to bring balance to our world. “Women and Wisdom
has been a lot about acknowledging the empowerment
of our foremothers and all the women mentors who
have taken stands or done things or been out there doing the
things they’ve felt drawn to do to mark the path. We
follow in that path and we are then creating the path for
future generations.”
Creating an organization dedicated
to the empowerment of women seems to be a natural
outgrowth for a woman who can link her activist behavior to
six generations of female ancestors. From the front lines
of the civil rights movement to the consciousness- raising
frontier of the new millennium, Gabrielle Beard is
a voice for honoring the creative genius of the Divine Feminine.
Gabrielle’s tips to honor
your deep inner core:
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“See
the beauty in other people, then we can see it in ourselves.
It’s reciprocity.” |
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“Go
deep to the well of forgiveness for oneself.” |
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“Resonate
with your passion – ask yourself questions, i.e.,
what are my dreams? What do I truly want to do? What is
my passion?” |
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“Connect
with other like-minded individuals.” |
Doing Good for the Greater Good
“We
love what we do!” is the exuberant expression
of Robin Davis, Owner and Fashion
Designer of Mack and Mack Clothing. Creating something
nice and not so casual for women to wear sparks Robin’s
creativity and gives rise to the Mack and Mack niche.
“I have been blessed, and all I can do now is try to
return it.”
Finding her
creative gift began when she moved to New York as
a young woman in her early 20’s. Robin says that’s
where her art came out in more ways than making clothes. She
was taking pictures all around New York and in only two months,
was invited to join a gallery to show her photographs.
She didn’t think much about it, yet the buzz among other
people helped her see the significance of her accomplishment.
Then, a providential meeting of a designer
in New York was the seed for her business today, as well as
the beginning of her spiritual quest.
Robin also emphasizes
that each of her career paths, which took her from
New York to Charlotte to Los Angeles over several decades,
strengthened her ability to run her business today.
“Each one of them I could not have done without and
the food business is where I met my husband. He gives me lots
of support.” Robin uses the metaphor of a colander
to embrace the blessing of her diverse life experiences. “You
have to be like a colander and let stuff sift through there
and then gather up the gems that are there.”
Learning from
others is of high importance to Robin, too. She reads
extensively on ways to bring a moral compass to her
business practices and analyzes business practices
by how they affect people. She favors the writings of Paul
Hawken, the Dali Lama and D. Patrick Miller.
Today, strengthening
her business is a high priority for Robin. “I know I
can do more good by strengthening it then anything, so that’s
why I’m putting a lot of energy into it.”
Robin’s
tips so you can be in touch with your creativity:
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“Learn
from others and from yourself.” |
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“Take
the time to find what your gift is.” |
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“Be
exposed to the arts, whether it’s music or museums
or whatever. Find something that puts you in touch with
another world.” |
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“You
have to have fun. If you’re not having fun, find
something because really and truly, that’s why we’re
here – to have fun!” |
It’s a New Year.
Let the wisdom from Yvonne, Gabrielle and Robin
be a beacon to illuminate your path. Choose to let 2004 be
the year you honor your creativity and give flight
to figments of your imagination. Remember, the next
time you have an out-of-the-box idea, it
may be your Royal Spirit urging you to take a risk, express
your creativity and learn from the process.
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Marilyn
Sprague-Smith,
M.Ed.,
is
an
award-winning
consultant,
trainer,
author,
professional
speaker,
and
certified
laughter
leader.
Through
her
consulting
and
training
firm
Miracles
&
Magic,
she
partners
with
individuals
and
organizations
seeking
a
catalyst
for
long-term
positive
change.
She
is
one
of
only
six
people
in
the
world
authorized
by
The
World
Laughter
Tour
to
deliver
laughter
leader
certification
training.
As
a
frequent
guest
on
National
Public
Radio’s
WFDD
88.5
FM
Real
People.
Real
Stories.
www.wfdd.org,
she
shares
true
stories
about
the
magic
of
laughter
and
the
sparkle
it
brings
to
relationships.
She
leads
Uplifting
Spirit
Laughter
Club
at
Unity
in
Greensboro
on
the
second
Friday
night
of
each
month.
It’s
free
and
open
to
the
public.
To
find
out
more
about
laughter
clubs,
or
to
bring
her
healing
laughter
programs
to
your
next
event,
or
to
register
for
certified
laughter
leader
training
in
the
Triad,
visit
www.miraclesmagicinc.com.
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