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Daring
to be Bold
Our nation’s history
is filled with women working
together to bring
about equality, freedom, and social
justice for all people.
Consider the women’s rights movement, launched in 1848. It
became a 72-year campaign to secure
women’s right to vote. Generations of bold
women defied the status quo. They became fervent social change agents.
Success arrived in 1920
when the nineteenth amendment became law of the land, yet it took
nearly another 70 years before women
in Maxton, North Carolina could claim elected office.
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The
"Three Mc's"
Seated left front row:
Former Commissioner Sallie McLean
Standing: Commissioner Geraldine McLaurin
Seated right front row: Mayor Lillie McKoy |
Spearheading this modern-day
women’s rights movement was Lillie
McKoy. Like her 19th century suffragist sisters,
Lillie found bold women who were willing to join her. Together,
they challenged the status quo and
ran for office. When they announced their candidacy
to the Maxton Citizens for Progress, a male-dominated
group in charge of shaping the future of Maxton, they met strong
resistance. They chose to stand firm and do it their way. In 1989,
Lillie McKoy, Geraldine McLaurin and Sallie McLean (pictured
at left) ran on a single ticket for the three open Commissioner’s
seats on Maxton’s Town Council. They called themselves “The
Three Mc’s.” “We knew the men
did not want us in office and that was food for our souls. We weathered
the storm,” says McKoy.
Lillie McKoy’s
ability to overcome obstacles and turn them
into successes developed at a young age. Lillie McKoy grew up in
a poor neighborhood, in a family of
22 siblings. She did not have the privilege of riding
the school bus; instead she walked a mile and a half to school everyday.
At 15 she left home to escape incest. She found a safe haven in
town with a lady everyone called “momma.” Lillie
stayed in school and graduated as valedictorian of her class.
After two years of factory
work, Lillie out-migrated to New York with hope for a brighter future.
“I believe you can be anything
you want to be, you just got to WANT to be,”
says Lillie. She was willing to begin wherever she could get her
foot in the door. Domestic work led to work in a coffee shop. Then,
she decided to advance her education. She attended New York City
College, while maintaining her full-time job in the coffee
shop, and graduated with a degree in business administration.
Lillie returned to Maxton
with her husband, Lee Vester McKoy, Jr., after living in New York
for twelve years. She found her hometown
in decay. Vacant store fronts, insufficient
streetlights, no teen
curfew. Lillie McKoy knew she wanted
more for her hometown and she was willing to blaze
new trails to make it happen.
On election night in 1989,
“The Three Mc’s” upseated
100 years of all male elected officials in the Town
of Maxton. “Change began that night in the Town of Maxton.
Once we got in, no
more on the outside looking in.
Things were different,” says McKoy. The night “The Three
Mc’s” were sworn into office, McKoy was selected as
Mayor Pro Tem.
With
knowledge of the town’s needs, McKoy began to organize and
put plans into action to revitalize
a decaying town. A public forum was added to the
meeting agenda to get input from citizens. The Patterson
Building, an historical building in the center of town,
was purchased and funds were raised to renovate it. Today, it is
the Town Hall.
Six years later, Lillie McKoy
again pushed tradition’s envelope. “I knew that a strong
Mayor with a united council could really change Maxton.” She
ran for Mayor. With her victory, Lillie McKoy became “the
first woman, the first African American woman, the only woman in
Robeson County” to be elected Mayor. Today,
she is serving her fourth term as Mayor of the
Town of Maxton.
A diverse range of revitalization
activity continues, from beautification
projects to water
and sewer infrastructure projects. Plus, there’s
a vision for an even greater Town of Maxton. Mayor McKoy handed
me a long, handwritten list of current and future goals. “When
I ran for office, they told me Maxton was a bedroom town,
no one wanted anything but to go away and work and come back and
sleep,” says McKoy. Then, with an ear-to-ear grin she continues,
“We’re not sleeping anymore.
We’re not sleeping anymore.”
As we celebrate National Women’s
History Month, Mayor McKoy’s message to women is a modern-day
amplification of the women’s rights movement. She says,
“Be
bold about what you are about.
If it’s what you believe in, be true to yourself and stand.”
Her message reinforces a message
expressed by Sojourner Truth, U.S. Abolitionist and Reformer,
at the first Women’s Rights Convention in 1848,
“If
the first woman God ever made was strong enough to turn the world
upside down, these women together ought to be able to turn it right
side up again.”
Mayor McKoy, thank you for
demonstrating that the women’s
rights movement is not just history. It’s
a modern-day story with modern-day "sheroes" working together
to bring about equality, freedom, and social justice for all people
Mayor Lillie McKoy can be
contacted at Town of Maxton, 201 McCaskill Street, Maxton, NC 28364.
Call 910-844-5231. MayorMcKoy@aol.com
Pictured above is the Patterson
Building, a Maxton landmark. Built in 1911 by J.A. Patterson for
the Bank of Robeson. Designed after Flatiron Building of New York
City. The Patterson Building also housed the Maxton Post Office
from 1932-1952.
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