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Marilyn Sprague-Smith, M.Ed.
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Professional Speaker,
Author, Facilitator,
Certified Laughter Leader

How to be a Beacon in a 40-Watt World

One of my favorite children’s books is Hope for the Flowers, written by Trina Paulus. It’s a tale of two caterpillars, Stripe and Yellow, and their quest to “risk for a butterfly.” Their journey requires abandoning the known, facing ridicule from peers, staring down self-doubt, and following an inner guidance system. If you’ve ever become disillusioned with climbing the ladder of success, questioned your purpose in life, or decided there’s got to be a better way to experience joy, happiness and prosperity, you too will embrace this story. Plus, you’ll want to read on and meet two phenomenal women who share words of wisdom in this month’s Y.E.S. Showcase.

Y.E.S. (You Expressing Spirit) Showcase

Still Standin’

To meet Parker Washburn, President, Leon’s Style Salons and Leon’s Beauty School in Greensboro, is to meet the full expression of freedom from fear. She says she learned from her mother to get good at facing fear, figuring out worst-case scenarios and finding ways to go forward. “I can’t believe people are so afraid of failure,” says Parker.

“Unless you die from it, you’ve got time to recoup.”

Business success for Parker, a recipient of The Business Journal’s 2003 Women in Business Award, goes beyond facing fear and overcoming adversity. It’s about teamwork and creating business systems with continuous loop feedback mechanisms. She says the real strength of Leon’s is not only the school being connected to the salons, but also all of the instructors at the school working in one of the Leon’s Style Salons. “We have a phenomenal teaching staff,” she says. “Because of them, our students are totally aware of what it takes to build a clientele. They can get out there and really go to work.”

Parker’s tips for gaining clarity and overcoming adversity:

“Learn what’s truly precious in life.” Here’s her guideline:

   1. Identify what you can reproduce. If you lose it, you can always get it back.

   2. Identify what you need to lose. It may be hard to lose it, but your life will be better.

   3. Identify what you can’t reproduce and you are sadder when it is gone. “That’s what is really precious in life.”

“Look within, rather than blame the world. Ask yourself, ‘Where have I participated in any of this? What can I learn from it?”
“Don’t say things in life that box you in, i.e., ‘We cannot work this out.’ That’s a box.”

Not long ago, one of Parker’s friends asked her what she was most proud of at this point. Her response, “I’m still standin’!” We both burst into peels of laughter. Then, there’s a pause, and Parker says, “Sometimes that’s just enough!”

One Light, Many Colors

Transformation is an inside-out job. To become a butterfly, one must give up the caterpillar.

There is a “master” to help spiritual seekers become craftspersons in calling forth their highest good. Gloria Karpinski, holistic counselor, spiritual director, teacher and author, is blazing new trails on the consciousness-raising frontier. She’s challenging the status quo and framing transformation questions. “Can you imagine a world where children are taught that their thoughts are things, that they are part of creating the world?” And then there are the questions, “What do we do when we quit killing each other? Can you imagine the solutions we would have to cure planetary problems if all that creative energy put into warfare was redirected?”

For Gloria, earth is a classroom and we’re all here learning. “Sometimes we know that what appears to be tragic, what appears to be a really rough time in our life ends up being the very one that shapes us.” She encourages her clients to ask themselves three important questions: 1) What can I learn out of this?; 2) What do I want to keep?; and 3) What is really going to be counter-productive to hang on to?” Gloria draws upon a Hindu expression to emphasize her point,

“You build a raft to cross the river, but you don’t strap it to your back to go up the mountain.”

Gloria says she has few things that are unequivocal as a rule – forgiveness is one of them. “What we don’t forgive, we bind to us. It acts like a magnet. What you hold in your mind, what you hold in your body, what you hold in an attitude acts as a magnet. Out of trillions of possibilities, the few hundred that come to you over and over and over again are off that magnet.” Gloria’s forgiveness mandate is reinforced strongly in her recent book, “Barefoot on Holy Ground: Twelve Lessons in Spiritual Craftsmanship.”

Gloria’s tips to quicken your spirit and heighten joy:

“Learn how to meditate.”
“Have colors and things around you that please you.”
“Have fresh things around you. If you can’t afford a fresh bouquet of flowers, then get one flower.”
“Know that when you are all you can be, your life becomes your gift.”

In Gloria’s first book, “Where Two World Touch: Spiritual Rites of Passage,” she shares an enduring message, a guide to honoring the butterfly within each of us. “This conflict ridden world needs us to celebrate, not argue about our diversity. There are endless prisms through which the Light breaks – one Light, many colors. May you find the color that is yours and live it and that both of us may grow in our understanding of the many colors within the one Light.”

Your personal success road map awaits you. Let Parker and Gloria’s words be touchstones as you journey to discover YOUR butterfly within. And remember to let your Royal Spirit soar in 2004!

Parker Washburn, President, Leon’s Style Salons and Leon’s Beauty School. Visit www.leonssalon.com.

Gloria Karpinski, holistic counselor, spiritual director, teacher and author. (Visit www.GloriaKarpinski.com). 

Marilyn Sprague-Smith, M.Ed., is an award-winning consultant, trainer, author, professional speaker, and certified laughter leader. Through her consulting and training firm Miracles & Magic, she partners with individuals and organizations seeking a catalyst for long-term positive change. She is one of only six people in the world authorized by The World Laughter Tour to deliver laughter leader certification training. As a frequent guest on National Public Radio’s WFDD 88.5 FM Real People. Real Stories. www.wfdd.org, she shares true stories about the magic of laughter and the sparkle it brings to relationships.

She leads Uplifting Spirit Laughter Club at Unity in Greensboro on the second Friday night of each month. It’s free and open to the public. To find out more about laughter clubs, or to bring her healing laughter programs to your next event, or to register for certified laughter leader training in the Triad, visit www.miraclesmagicinc.com.

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