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How
to be a Beacon in a 40-Watt World
One of my favorite children’s
books is Hope for the Flowers, written by Trina
Paulus. It’s a tale of two caterpillars, Stripe and
Yellow, and their quest to “risk for a butterfly.”
Their journey requires abandoning the known, facing ridicule
from peers, staring down self-doubt, and following an inner
guidance system. If you’ve ever become disillusioned
with climbing the ladder of success, questioned your purpose
in life, or decided there’s got to be a better way to experience
joy, happiness and prosperity, you too will embrace this story.
Plus, you’ll want to read on and meet two phenomenal women
who share words of wisdom in this month’s Y.E.S. Showcase.
Y.E.S. (You Expressing
Spirit) Showcase
Still
Standin’
To
meet Parker Washburn, President, Leon’s
Style Salons and Leon’s Beauty School in Greensboro,
is to meet the full expression of freedom from fear. She says she
learned from her mother to get good at facing fear, figuring
out worst-case scenarios and finding ways to go forward.
“I can’t believe people are so afraid of failure,”
says Parker.
“Unless
you die from it, you’ve got time to recoup.”
Business success for Parker,
a recipient of The Business Journal’s 2003 Women in
Business Award, goes beyond facing fear and overcoming
adversity. It’s about teamwork and creating business
systems with continuous loop feedback mechanisms.
She says the real strength of Leon’s is not only the school
being connected to the salons, but also all of the instructors at
the school working in one of the Leon’s Style Salons. “We
have a phenomenal teaching staff,” she says.
“Because of them, our students are totally aware of what it
takes to build a clientele. They can get out there and really go
to work.”
Parker’s tips for gaining
clarity and overcoming adversity:
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“Learn
what’s truly precious in life.” Here’s her
guideline:
1.
Identify what you can reproduce. If you lose it, you can always
get it back.
2.
Identify what you need to lose. It may be hard to lose it,
but your life will be better.
3. Identify
what you can’t reproduce and you are sadder when it
is gone. “That’s what is really precious in life.” |
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“Look within, rather
than blame the world. Ask yourself, ‘Where have I participated
in any of this? What can I learn from it?” |
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“Don’t
say things in life that box you in, i.e., ‘We cannot work
this out.’ That’s a box.” |
Not long ago, one of Parker’s
friends asked her what she was most proud of at this point. Her
response, “I’m still standin’!”
We both burst into peels of laughter. Then, there’s a pause,
and Parker says, “Sometimes that’s just enough!”
One
Light, Many Colors
Transformation
is an inside-out job. To become a butterfly, one must give
up the caterpillar.
There is a “master”
to help spiritual seekers become craftspersons in calling forth
their highest good. Gloria Karpinski, holistic counselor,
spiritual director, teacher and author, is blazing new trails on
the consciousness-raising frontier. She’s challenging
the status quo and framing transformation questions. “Can
you imagine a world where children are taught that their thoughts
are things, that they are part of creating the world?” And
then there are the questions, “What do we do when we quit
killing each other? Can you imagine the solutions we would have
to cure planetary problems if all that creative energy put into
warfare was redirected?”
For Gloria, earth
is a classroom and we’re all here learning. “Sometimes
we know that what appears to be tragic,
what appears to be a really rough time in our life
ends up being the very one that shapes
us.” She encourages her clients to ask themselves
three important questions: 1) What can I learn out of this?; 2)
What do I want to keep?; and 3) What is really going to be counter-productive
to hang on to?” Gloria draws upon a Hindu expression
to emphasize her point,
“You
build a raft to cross the river, but you don’t strap it to
your back to go up the mountain.”
Gloria says she has few things
that are unequivocal as a rule – forgiveness is one of them.
“What we don’t forgive, we bind to us.
It acts like a magnet. What you hold in your mind, what you hold
in your body, what you hold in an attitude acts as a magnet.
Out of trillions of possibilities, the few hundred that come to
you over and over and over again are off that magnet.” Gloria’s
forgiveness mandate is reinforced strongly in her recent book, “Barefoot
on Holy Ground: Twelve Lessons in Spiritual Craftsmanship.”
Gloria’s tips to quicken
your spirit and heighten joy:
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“Learn
how to meditate.” |
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“Have colors and
things around you that please you.” |
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“Have
fresh things around you. If you can’t afford a fresh bouquet
of flowers, then get one flower.” |
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“Know
that when you are all you can be, your life becomes your gift.” |
In Gloria’s first book,
“Where Two World Touch: Spiritual Rites of Passage,”
she shares an enduring message, a guide to honoring the
butterfly within each of us. “This conflict ridden
world needs us to celebrate, not argue about our diversity. There
are endless prisms through which the Light breaks
– one Light, many colors. May you find the color that is yours
and live it and that both of us may grow in our understanding of
the many colors within the one Light.”
Your
personal success road map awaits you.
Let Parker and Gloria’s words be touchstones as you
journey to discover YOUR butterfly
within. And remember to let your Royal Spirit soar
in 2004!
Parker Washburn, President,
Leon’s Style Salons and Leon’s Beauty School. Visit
www.leonssalon.com.
Gloria Karpinski, holistic counselor,
spiritual director, teacher and author. (Visit www.GloriaKarpinski.com).
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Marilyn
Sprague-Smith,
M.Ed.,
is
an
award-winning
consultant,
trainer,
author,
professional
speaker,
and
certified
laughter
leader.
Through
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consulting
and
training
firm
Miracles
&
Magic,
she
partners
with
individuals
and
organizations
seeking
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catalyst
for
long-term
positive
change.
She
is
one
of
only
six
people
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the
world
authorized
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World
Laughter
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to
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laughter
leader
certification
training.
As
a
frequent
guest
on
National
Public
Radio’s
WFDD
88.5
FM
Real
People.
Real
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www.wfdd.org,
she
shares
true
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about
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magic
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laughter
and
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sparkle
it
brings
to
relationships.
She
leads
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Spirit
Laughter
Club
at
Unity
in
Greensboro
on
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second
Friday
night
of
each
month.
It’s
free
and
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to
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To
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laughter
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to
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