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As
I turn the big FOUR-O
this month, the "possibility"
of entering mid-life looms large. I used
to think mid-life was something that happens to "other
people" and that I had plenty of time left
before the strands of "stray gray" appeared.
Turning
40 can't be all that bad, I suppose. Growing
older is an inevitable process, one in which my
own self-reflection offers new light and brings new meaning
to the things I value the most in my life.
Here
are just a few pearls of wisdom I've collected
as I turn 40:
- some
of the best things in life really are in your own backyard,
- brand labels
don't hold the same importance as they once did;
it's not necessarily what's on the outside, but rather
what we feel deep in our hearts, our minds and our souls;
just as a great outfit can make the woman, so too can
a great smile, a wonderful sense of humor or a
kind and nurturing way; find your own style and adopt
it as your own "brand label,"
(don't miss Jackie Stanley's "Express Yourself"
article this month.)
- to be truly happy
and enjoy what we have, we
must be optimistic and endeavor to "see the glass
as half full;"
As
we take time to celebrate the upcoming Thanksgiving holidays,
I'd like to recognize and
offer my own thanks for the following:
- Journal
Editor Linda Ray for her professional editorial
guidance;
- all
the wonderful articles,
short essays and tips from the Journal contributors;
- the
Journal's board of advisors for
their time commitment;
- the
kind, inspiring and encouraging
words from many Journal readers who enjoy
receiving the Journal each month;
- and
most of all the unwavering
love and support of my husband Bryan and our children.
This
month's featured North Carolinian is
Ann Miller Woodford, a visionary and the "first
of one dozen." After reading about
Ann, her background and her
grass-roots activism, you'll see and understand
why her community development organization is called "One
Dozen Who Care." Ask Ann and she will
tell you that one person really
can make a difference in the lives of others;
all it takes it time, effort
and a willingness to pursue what really matters most.
Have
a wonderful Thanksgiving holiday this month and remember
those in need.
The
best is most certainly yet to come.
Best
Regards,
Paula
Monahan |