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An
Investment: Writing Your Truth
Just
begin. Getting your thoughts and ideas down on paper
starts the process of knowing your own truth. A
time investment of just five minutes can help you “dump”
immediate stresses. Writing it down is part
of your natural ability that can be nurturing, even indulgent
when you can move beyond the fear of the inner critic. There
are no certain skills required beforehand to write your
life-map seasoned with your own unique twists and turns.
Don’t
subscribe to the preconceived idea and the stigmas associated
with personal writing. It is not necessary to write
every day or tell every detail. But if you prefer to log
only the facts of your daily agenda, you will miss out on
some of the journaling magic. The journey to goal setting
and self-discovery will be overlooked. You
will get better results when you write because your moods
and thoughts guide you to action, knowing
that the time invested will pay off when you strive to write
more often for longer periods of time.
Most
people find great satisfaction when it comes to finding
solutions for their lifestyle with diet and exercise. You
pay attention to what is good for you and may even join
a gym. Yet, when it comes to the core of
who you really are with thoughts and feelings, you often
minimize or distract yourself. Start today and challenge
yourself by writing for just five minutes. Don’t
worry about what you don’t say or the perfect way
to phrase it; just write the
words as they come naturally. It will be
an investment you may never regret.
What
you think has value.
Many
times, expectations are placed
on what you think you “should” write when it
is really about being comfortable with your own truth.
This is your story the way you see it. Allow it to be that.
The way you felt yesterday about your boss, your mother
or your spouse may be different today because time lessened
the anger. That’s okay. Whatever you think
and feel is about giving yourself permission to just be
you.
By
picking up a pen and allowing the words to flow freely just
as you think them is known as stream
of consciousness. This is the most common
form of personal writing. The
actual act of writing slows down the brain process in order
to provide the subconscious thoughts to come forward. This
is a great reason to start writing. Most likely, you will
discover the thoughts you began with turn into something
else entirely. This is an added bonus for writing it down.
When
I offer the opportunity for someone to learn seventeen
targeted writing techniques for overall life management,
people often look bewildered. A common response is, “Isn’t
all you have to do is just sit down and write?”
The truth is when you write only stream of consciousness,
you only have one avenue available to you with problem solving.
Many times, you may find the same questions asked repeatedly
without solutions or you may be writing the same mistakes
over and over without getting anywhere.
Stream
of consciousness, or free writing, is a great start when
you have the urge to just “get it out.”
Many wonderful unexpected thoughts find their way to paper.
At one time or another, there has been a time or event in
your life that needed exactly what stream of consciousness
has to offer.
Think
of other benefits that could be gained by learning several
targeted writing skills. Your possibilities are limitless.
By investing the time to
learn specific problem solving solutions with yourself,
your relationships, your dreams and life’s dilemmas,
you will soon discover options available to you and never
find yourself stuck. It’s the difference between
doing your best without determining the outcome and having
a detailed road map to get you there. |