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Cher
Holton, Ph.D.
You can
manage your life when you manage yourself …
and you can manage yourself when you manage your
choices!
It doesn’t
matter what great things you accomplish in life,
until you have inner peace and harmony. Once you
have inner peace and harmony, it doesn’t
matter what great things you accomplish in life.
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Harmony
on the Job:
Creating Joy and Meaning in Your Work
If you suddenly
became independently wealthy, would you continue
working? In a recent survey conducted at the
University of Massachusetts, an overwhelming 8 out of
10 people said “YES!” This
tells me that meaningful work is necessary for purposeful
living, because work is an extension of who we are. But
what this survey failed to report, and what I would love
to ask, is would those individuals
continue working at their current jobs?
My hunch would be that they would answer with a resounding
NO. Why? Take a peek at some additional research I uncovered:
• An estimated 75% of all Americans are working
at jobs they don’t like…and if they had it
to do all over again, they wouldn’t choose their
current job or employer.
• A Fortune magazine
study reported that of 30,000 workers interviewed, 47%
dislike or at best are ambivalent about the company they
work for.
• A survey from Harvard University indicates that
U.S. wage earners are working the equivalent of an extra
month of time on the job each year compared to a decade
ago. Nearly half of those surveyed admitted they
would willingly take less pay for more free time.
If
you are unhappy in the work you do, it drains you of energy
and builds a negative attitude that infects everything
else you do. Peter Senge said: “People
shouldn’t have to leave their jobs to find one that’s
more meaningful. Many can
find meaning if they just think about their jobs differently.”
So let’s look at how we can do that.
Here are five tools
to help you think about your job differently, and discover
joy and meaning in the work you do.
1. Focus
on the Positive
No matter what job you are doing right now, make
a conscious choice to enjoy it more. Begin
to focus on the specific parts of your job that bring
you joy. What skills do
you have an opportunity to use? How are
you contributing to helping others, and bringing joy and
harmony into your workplace? As
you change your focus to emphasize the positive, you will
discover that your job takes on a whole new dimension—and
you take on a new radiance.
2. Apply the “Lifestyle
Principle”
As you begin to redefine your work, keep
this principle in mind: First
determine the kind of lifestyle you want, then wrap your
work around that lifestyle.
Think about what
this means. If your lifestyle
calls for lots of family time, then you certainly don’t
want to accept the promotion that will force you to
travel three weeks out of every month.
If money is a critical part of your lifestyle needs,
then you might be wise to accept the offer of time-and-a
half and work the holiday weekend. Once you know what
you want, the how becomes much easier to determine.
3. Create
a “Stress-Free Zone”
Designate a specific area to be a “Stress-Free
Zone.” When you are
there, no one can interrupt you or disturb you.
A few of my client companies allow employees to design
their own zones, with permission to spend a maximum of
15 minutes there at their own discretion. One area had
a small rug, a rocking chair, and a CD player with headphones.
Another had a hammock stretched kitty-cornered, with a
fake palm tree, magazines, and a small refrigerator. Another
company set up a miniature golf course in the hallway
and through the cubicles—after hours, of course.
What’s interesting is that
nowhere that this idea is used has it been abused by employees.
So—set up your Stress-Free Zone, and take time out
to relax!
4.
Employ a “Message Notebook”
Do you have fifty million little pieces of paper
floating around with individual messages on them? If so,
you understand the frustration of having messages fall
through the cracks (figuratively and literally). Here’s
a way to eliminate this problem: Keep a spiral notebook
right by the telephone. Each morning write
the date at the top of a fresh page. Notes from any telephone
calls you receive are recorded in that notebook; messages
from your answering service get captured there; messages
others take for you get stapled right in the notebook.
In my notebook, I draw a
square by the items that need an action by me, and check
it off when I complete it. It is simple
to quickly scan through my notebook and identify open
squares indicating actions I haven’t taken yet.
And these notebooks have saved me several times when I’ve
needed to recall a person’s name or telephone number.
5. Rewrite
Your Vocabulary
Throw these two phrases out of your vocabulary:
“It’s not my
job” and “I’m just a…” Both
these phrases demean your skills and abilities, and put
you in a defensive position. Recognize
that you are a powerful individual with an amazing amount
of knowledge, and no matter what your job title, you have
tremendous opportunities to share your skills and help
others. Appreciate who you are and what you know!
As you put these
five ideas into action, you will experience an immediate
uplifting in your work environment. As
you take the initiative to find joy and meaning in your
work, you will attract new people, exciting opportunities,
and positive joy into your professional life.
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people are as uniquely qualified to combine the skills of speaker, trainer,
consultant, and group facilitator into one dynamic bundle of energy as
Cher Holton. Cher is most often requested for her dynamic interactive
Keynotes, her unique Retreat Forward™ Summits, and her innovative
TurboTraining™ sessions. She is author of several books, including
The Manager’s Short Course; Living at the Speed of
Life; and From Ballroom to Bottom Line…in business and
in life. Cher is one of only a handful of professionals throughout
the world who has earned both the Certified Speaking Professional and
Certified Management Consultant designations. She leads, guides, and inspires
people to live at the speed of life … one choice at a time!
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ph:919-783-7088
800-336-3940
fax: 919-781-2218
cher@holtonconsulting.com
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Cher
Holton, Ph.D. ~
Impact Consultant of Choice
The Holton Consulting Group, Inc.
"Inspiring people to live at the speed of life …one choice
at a time." |
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