Working
With Soul:
Step into Your Possibility Curve;
Step into Anxiety to Transform the
Ordinary into the Extraordinary
In photography,
what turns a “Good Frame” into a “Great
Frame”? In a word, Change:
a change in the sky, the raise of an eyebrow, the unexpected
flight of frightened snow geese or the slight turn of
a hand. Award-winning photographer Dewitt
Jones worships change in his work. Why? Because change
always holds the most potential for capturing the “Great
Frame.”
If Jones saw change’s
value so clearly in his photography, it deeply
puzzled him why it frightened him so in other areas of
his life. Pondering his double-minded standard,
he began to see that the change curve we hear so much
about was really his ally––– not only
in work, but in all of life. In fact, viewing it from
a slightly different perspective, it was not a change
curve at all–––it
was a “Possibility Curve”!
In his video “Celebrate
What’s Right With the World,”
Jones flashed one frame after another across the big screen,
hammering home his point: “‘Good Frame’—‘GREAT
Frame.’ ‘Good Frame’—‘GREAT
Frame’” again and again. Along with his live
audience, I witnessed firsthand how having a vision,
studying your technique, putting yourself in your place
of most potential and then listening, watching and waiting
with readiness for possibilities to emerge can literally
transform the ordinary into the extraordinary.
We
say we want things to be different out of one side of
our mouth, yet we block possibilities for positive change
out of the other side. Why? Change threatens.
It’s risky. It means stepping into the unknown,
loss of control; it can be difficult, frightening, even
overwhelming. The bottom line becomes: “Do
I risk change? Do I risk opening to possibilities? Or,
do I remain the same?”
How do we clothe
ourselves with this proposed “Possibility Curve”
attitude? Jones says it begins with being willing,
open, and having the desire to look for–––really
seek out–––the next right answer.
We have a choice. We can allow those pesky anxiety siblings
of fear, doubt and uncertainty to nail us to the sidelines
or we can choose to say “Yes” and dance with
possibility. Eleanor Roosevelt said:
“You
gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience
in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You
must do the thing you cannot do.”
In other words,
do it afraid. Like begets like. Fear begets fear; faith
begets faith; visions of
possibilities beget a pool of possibilities.