Rebuilding:
Back-to-School Lessons and Supplies for Mom
Each year, by early
August, discount stores across the country prominently
display back- to-school supplies for children of all ages.
It is an exciting time to be a student and, as
long as one can navigate shopping carts down crowded aisles
and find required items, the ritual can be a happy one
for their parents.
Whether purchasing
the first Superman book bag with tears in our eyes, or
refinancing our home to buy a calculator (with tears in
our eyes), we make sure
our children have everything they need to ensure a smooth
and successful transition.
Do
you put the same effort and preparations into the next
ten months of your life? Do you invest
in materials that support you to reach your goals between
September and June?
Although
my children are young adults and it’s been two years
since I drove around town searching for the perfect jeans,
a mesh book bag, Webster’s Pocket Dictionary, and
loose-leaf notebook paper, I still know how to shop for
things that count.
Here is
your list five items that will get you focused and moving
toward your own year of happiness and power:
Lunch
container – Do you even taste your
mid-day meal? Is it good for you? By
taking your lunch to work, could you eat healthier foods,
enjoy your meal, and dine in places that calm and rejuvenate
you?
Notebook
– I see stores practically giving away paper in
September. Whether you carry a spiral notebook in your
briefcase, a memo pad in the car, or single sheets folded
in your purse, you need a place to record important
ideas and creative musings. This allows us to remember
and organize otherwise swirling thoughts on paper.
Planner
– Do you know where
you need to be, and usually arrive on time?
Or does it feel as if you’re always running out
the door with only moments before your next appointment?
Do the kids complain that you are late picking
them up from school or extra-curricular activities? The
pressure to manage everyone’s schedule adds stress
to an already hectic life. Is your organization
system working for you, or against you?
Good
book – While it doesn’t seem
like it, you really might have some free time throughout
your busy day. Is there
a book you’ve wanted to read, but decided against
purchasing because you didn’t have a solid block
of time to enjoy it? Could you finish
even a page or two while waiting for the kids at practices
or when picking them up from school, or in the line at
the grocery store?
Sleep
– Would you allow your child to stay up late and
rise with dark circles under their eyes? Absolutely not!
Then, why do women allow themselves and their
beloved friends to madly dash around in sleep-deprived
stupors? This year, as you tuck the kids into
bed, ask yourself, “What tasks could really wait
until morning?”
These five little
purchases and practices can make all the difference in
your personal satisfaction and success this year.
Your
children aren’t the only ones turning the page for
their next chapter of life. This is your
time, too! Since starting
time is your decision, the bell rings whenever you are
ready. And because you deserve the same
words of encouragement as your little ones boarding the
big yellow bus, or walking into a class with a new teacher
and bigger desks, let me say,
“You
can do this, and I’m proud of you.”
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