The
Legacy of Peter Jennings:
His Weakness Is Your Strength
Peter
Jennings was more than a great news anchor; he
was also a caring, curious, and compassionate human being.
He was a great role model whose passion for excellence
overcame his deficiency of not completing high school
(something he certainly did not advise doing). The
sad loss of Peter Jennings has been a wake-up call to
many smokers: the American Lung Association
reports that calls and inquiries doubled within hours
of his death. However, fear
can be a fleeting and momentary motivation.
While Peter has passed on, hopefully the lessons to be
learned from his death will linger.
When
Jennings shared the news of his cancer to the American people,
he referred to himself as weak, admitting he had
been a smoker for far too many years. Peter Jennings
and the millions of people who smoke are not weak, but addicted.
It is not a character flaw
but a hardcore addiction, and thus must be treated with
hardcore change. Rewiring the brain or training
the brain to think and act differently is essential for
breaking any bad habit, addiction, or behavior that sabotages
your success. Lasting behavior
change requires a change in your belief system by rebooting
the brain and reprogramming your mind for success.
Whether
that nagging habit is smoking, eating too much, drinking,
drugs, gambling, pornography or stress, pain, and poor performance,
neuroscience now provides answers that are found
in the unconscious mind. Jennings stated that it
was through hypnosis that he finally quit smoking in the
eighties, but the stress of
9/11 unfortunately lured him back. (Stress
causes a “downshift” in the brain where we resort
to our instinctual brain and find comfort in our old familiar
bad habits and behaviors.)
However,
just as you take your body in for a physical and your car
in for a tune-up, so too we need to continually
renew our thinking and restore our minds for optimal performance.
As physicians become more aware of the mind-body connection,
hopefully they too will help their patients live longer,
healthier lives by recommending alternative resources that
do make a difference. Until
there is what I refer to as a “MindShift,” nothing
changes. It is why 85%–95% of all diets fail.
First of all, diets have a beginning and an end. Beating
addictions is a lifestyle change and a change in thinking
patterns that is not a six-week plan or maneuver.
It is a life plan and action strategy.
One of
Peter Jennings’ last requests was that we learn from
his mistakes and quit smoking (or never start). For over
thirty years as a psychotherapist and hypnotherapist, I
have helped thousands of people kick the habit—any
habit—including that of negative thinking, which interferes
with all of life’s dreams. Unfortunately
Jennings had smoked for too many years before discovering
hypnosis, which finally gave him the mental blueprint to
at least extend his years of love and service. To
better understand how hypnosis and the power of the unconscious
mind can change your life, the following information was
taken from my interview with John Assaraf (in
my book, Winning! How Winners Think—What Champions
Do).
Brain
Boosters: Change your mind, Change Your Life
1.
Change your core beliefs: 83% of actions are rooted
in the unconscious mind.
2.
Commitment:
Interest alone will not reverse an established behavior
pattern.
3.
Develop mental efficiency
and shortcuts: Thoughts and impulses on
the conscious level race at a top speed of 140 miles per
hour. However, thoughts
and impulses on the unconscious level rocket at a breathtaking
28 miles per second. We process
information 24/7.
4.
Beliefs more than truth create our habits.
Belief
+ Experience x Repetition = Habit
Habit + Experience x Repetition = Conviction
5.
Energy is power: Your thoughts
are energy and thus the motivating force of change.
6.
The choice is yours: Your brain is the switch
box and the control center for the realities you create.
7.
Forecasts of the future: Check
your current thought patterns that determine tomorrow’s
successes or failures.
8.
Magnetism and attraction:
Your thoughts create an energy field that attracts
more of the same positive or negative energy.
What is your alignment? There is no such thing as a healthy
victim.
9.
If you don’t like
the printout—change the blueprint.
All change begins from the “insight” out.
Your mental images, self
esteem, and what you believe you deserve will determine
what you get.
10.
Learn the (Donald) Trump philosophy:
“To
be a winner you must think like a winner and never quit.”
Peter
Jennings was a winner who lost the battle by not having
the right ammunition or tools to change early enough in
his fight. Hopefully these tips will enlighten
you to train your brain to overcome obstacles and attain
your personal victories.
Mind-empowering
strategies such as visualization and hypnosis actually create
new neuropathways and thicken them with repeated exercise.
If physical exercise and daily workouts strengthen your
physical body, think of what a few mental gymnastics might
do to help you take charge of your life. |