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Liza
Weidle
"Kind
words can be short
and easy to speak, but their
echoes are truly endless." - Mother Teresa
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Do
More than Hunt for
Eggs on Easter
Special Excerpt from The Truth about Parenting:
Navigating the Elementary Years*
On
Easter we remember that Jesus was cruelly mocked, beaten,
and crucified. So why is it a time of rejoicing? Because
on Easter, Jesus Christ was raised from the dead. He is
victorious over death and gives new life to those who believe
in Him. Through His death, burial and resurrection,
we are given forgiveness of our sins and the gift of eternal
life. Indeed, Easter is a time for great rejoicing!**
You would need a scrooge-like
mentality to not like Easter. It’s
the only holiday that meets the needs of both sexes with
the added bonus of everyone eating chocolate and jellybeans.
For the girls, it can be all about getting a new dress,
shoes, and hat to wear to Sunday school.
For the boys, the fun comes from hunting for the eggs.
Once
kids grow beyond the thrill of a new dress and going on
a hunt, it can be hard to
get them back to the real meaning of Easter: celebrating
the resurrection of Jesus.
Starting when your
children are young helps instill a Christian perspective
on the holiday. When I was little, our family made a tradition
of going to Easter sunrise service. Most of the
sunrise services we have attended over the years include
singing of the hymn Morning has Broken. The
words from the second verse are the ones I reflect on with
my children in starting our conversation on the meaning
of Easter.
Sweet
the rain’s new fall, sunlight from heaven,
Like the first dewfall, on the first grass,
Praise for the sweetness, of the wet garden.
Sprung in completeness, where His feet pass.†
It
doesn’t take long for the questions to go from Jesus
dying on a cross for our sins down a rabbit hole with “What’s
with the bunny leaving baskets?” Ugh.
Here we go again with the mixing of a pagan festival together
with a Christian celebration. The
simplest explanation worked for my boys: “the Easter
Bunny comes from the rabbit being a symbol of fertility
that carries brightly colored eggs to represent the sunlight
of spring. The Easter Bunny hopping down the lane is a lot
like Santa coming down the chimney.”
One of easiest ways
to make Easter meaningful is to lead kids on a fun, faith-filled
Easter egg hunt that can teach them about Jesus’ death
and resurrection. Family Life (www.familylife.com) has a
ready-made set of Easter eggs that makes this easy. Egg
cartons are filled with a dozen colorful plastic eggs that
contain symbols of the Easter story and relevant scripture
to read. Starting twelve days before Easter Sunday,
open one egg per day, talk about the enclosed object. The
first day is a plastic palm leaf representing the branches
the people waved at Jesus as he rode into Jerusalem on a
donkey.
On Easter morning,
fill the Easter baskets with things which are reflective
of the resurrection and life of Jesus. Here are some ideas
from Christianity Today of things to put in Easter
Baskets:††
1.
A Lamb: This represents the Lamb of God who came to take
away our sin.
2. Plastic eggs filled with jelly beans
that are the following colors:
• Black
— represents the darkness of our lives before Jesus
when we were still in sin.
• Red —
represents Jesus’ shed blood.
• White —
represents our sins that are washed away.
• Yellow — represents the streets of gold
in heaven.
• Green — represents
growing in Jesus.
3. An empty plastic
egg in their basket and, with a marking pen, write “He
is Risen” on the outside. The
egg is empty for the “Empty Tomb.”
4. Bookmarks or story
books from a Bible Store that represents the story of Easter.
5. Rock candy to represent
the stone that was rolled away.
6. Chocolate coins to
remind us of the thirty pieces of silver that Judas received
for his betrayal of Jesus.
There are so many
ways Easter can be made more meaningful than just a visit
from the bunny. Even the traditional Easter food
can have special meaning. Hot Cross Buns, one of my favorite
Easter treats, have become known in our family as the Easter
Bread. The buns are small round sweet breads enriched
with raisins and other sweet dried fruits and decorated
with a cross of icing. The symbolism of the bread
is to remember Jesus as the “Living Bread” who
came down from heaven to give us eternal life.
The ham most eat for Easter can symbolize the animals sacrificed
in the Old Testament as a foreshadowing of the life and
resurrection of Jesus. These are just a few simple ways
you can take your current traditions and make them become
more meaningful for your children.
*Weidle,
Liza. The Truth About Parenting: Navigating the Early
Years. New Bern, NC: McBryde Publishing, 2006.
**Van Bebber, Mark. “Easter – A Time for Rejoicing!”
Kid Explorers, 2005. http://christiananswers.net/kids/wordsearch6.html
†Farjeon, Eleanor. “Morning Has Broken.”
1931.
††Brown, Jan. “Family
Activities for the Week Prior to Easter.” Christianity
Today, 2001. http://www.christianitytoday.com/holidays/easter/features/activities.html
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