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Four-Step P.L.A.N. for Successful
New Year’s Resolutions
New Year’s
resolutions, otherwise known as "good intentions,"
are those things that are set at the beginning of the year
when people feel they can wipe the slate clean and get a
fresh start. It is said that 80% of all News Year’s
resolutions fail. A survey conducted by Gail Kasper, LLC
(www.gailkasper.com) finds that 51% of people don’t
have New Year’s resolutions, and of those who do,
79% don’t have a plan to achieve them, leaving a small
9% of Americans serious about achieving their goals from
the onset.
The truth is, resolutions
can be accomplished. You just have to follow the four P.L.A.N.
steps, and you can make your resolutions a success this
year!
Simply
follow the four-step P.L.A.N.:
P
= Prepare.
Visualize what you want. Sit down and
really think through what it is that you want to accomplish.
Plan with the end goal in
mind. Write your resolution/goal in the first person, as
if it were already done. Set a deadline of when you want
it accomplished. Write down the result of
your accomplished goal and the reward you will give yourself
when you meet it. Now, walk
backwards in your mind and write down at least three measurable
mini-milestones. Do this so you can check your progress
along the way. Prepare your mind and have
a visual aid to keep in front of you so that you will be
focused and committed in this next year.
L
= List.
To be clear about the commitment you are
taking on, make some key lists to support your efforts.
- What personal
behaviors need to change to make this goal a reality?
-
What steps will you have to take to make it happen?
- What are the barriers
that might prevent you from accomplishing your goal?
- What will
you have to stop doing to make your goal a success?
- What is in your
control and what is out of yourcontrol? What can you do
about each?
-
What are the "costs" you will have to
pay to accomplish this resolution (e.g., if you are trying
to lose weight, forfeiting potato chips)?
- What are your
strengths and weakness? How can you utilize them or watch
out for them?
- Review
your lists to make sure you are really willing to pay
the cost, are committed to changing your behavior, and
are ready to do what it will take to follow the plan.
A = Adjust.
Assess your environment and decide what things
you need to change. Your environment around you
makes a difference in your ability to work towards and implement
your goal. Look at what things in your environment could
hold you back form your goals and what things in your environments
can help you accomplish them. What do you need
to add and what do you need to get rid of? Right now, actively
make these changes so that your environments are ready to
support you in accomplishing your resolution. Your environment
may include the following:
- relationships
- feelings
- thoughts
- health
- time
- energy
sources
- personal space
of home, office, or car
- and other
things that you surround yourself with.
N
= Network.
Ensure that someone or something around you knows your goal
and will help you measure your progress. There are many
Web sites that help you track and assess your goals, including
as http://www.goals.com
or http://sparkpeople.com/index.asp.
Many other online tools that are topic specific, like http://www.foodfacts.com/
work well. Perhaps you are
more comfortable building a support system: either find
someone who knows you well and with whom you are comfortable
designing how they can support you, or arrange for an accountability
buddy with whom you are in "competition" as you
both strive to meet your respective goals.
When
you use the four P.L.A.N. steps (PREPARE, LIST, ADJUST,
and NETWORK) to outline your goals, you are setting yourself
up for success. It is challenging
to change behavior and that is what New Year’s resolutions
usually are about.* But, when you are thorough and diligent
about planning on the front end, you can almost guarantee
results on the back end.
Now, the only thing left to do is implement the PLAN!
You can do it. Charge into 2006 and keep working on your
PLAN.
*COMMON RESOLUTIONS:
Spend more time with family & friends; exercise more,
lose weight or eat better; quit smoking; enjoy life more &
have fun; quit drinking; get out of debt, stick to a budget,
save or earn more money; learn something new; find a better
job; help others; become a better person; be more patient
at work and/or with others; get organized. |