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| Marilyn
Sprague-Smith, M.Ed. |

The warning sign said,
“Beware Motorcycles: Rumble Strip in Center
Lane.” I was driving through a highway construction
zone. Four lanes of divided highway narrowed to two. I read
the sign and dismissed it. I wasn’t on a motorcycle.
I was driving my SUV with
cruise control engaged. So far, it was a smooth ride.
My mind was occupied
in a mental rehearsal of my presentation. Driving time was
on schedule. I even had a little extra time, a buffer, in
case I took a wrong turn. I was in my comfort zone, feeling
like the master of my universe.
Brrrut!
Brrrut! Brrrut!
The sound of my tires
on rumble strips seized my attention. Rehearsal
time ended, abruptly. I was keenly aware of being off track
and needing to get off the rumble strips. I swerved
back into my traffic lane; back into safety. The rumble
strips had become an ally. They warned me that I was heading
into danger. They sent me a signal to change course and
get back to safety.
Our
negative feelings are like rumble strips, too. They are
alerting us that our thoughts are pulling us away from joy,
happiness, peace of mind. The message they deliver is that
our natural state of being, joy and happiness, is diminishing.
Our feelings may be a general uneasiness, like a yellow
flashing caution light. Or, they may be
intense and grab our attention, like an emergency vehicle
siren screaming to clear the path. Whatever the intensity
of our negative feelings, they are signaling us to change
course and get back into joy’s traffic lane. They
are an ally for our happiness.
Happiness
has another ally: Laughter. There is an ever-expanding body
of scientific evidence that shows the positive power of
laughter to influence our emotions. For
example, laughter is a whole-brain activity. When we’re
laughing, we stimulate simultaneously both the right and
left hemispheres of the brain. While laughing, we are shutting
off our ability to think negative thoughts, so laughter
creates respite for our brain.
Laughter also increases
production of catecholamines, resulting in increased levels
of alertness and memory. Laughter enhances our ability
to think with greater clarity so we can make better choices.
With laughter, we can turn off the negative thoughts and
tap into an enhanced sense of well-being.
Not sure how to let
laughter be your happiness ally? Here are some ways you
can bring more laughter into your life:
• Look for
the funny in everyday living. It may be a conversation
you overhear. It may be a comic strip, movie, TV/radio
commercial. It may be something your spouses, children,
or pets do. There are acres of funny stuff all around
you. Choose to look for it. When you see it, laugh!
• Be
willing to laugh at yourself. If you make a mistake or
feel like you’ve said something stupid, laugh! Weeks
or years from now it’ll be a great tale you can
share with others to stir up more laughter. Besides, when
you laugh at yourself, it gives other people permission
to be human around you, too. It helps to ease tension
and build relationships.
• Participate
in a laughter club session. Laughter clubs are cropping
up in cities around the world. Check out www.worldlaughtertour.com
to find a laughter club near you. It’s your opportunity
to experience the healing power of laughter, without the
use of jokes or humor.
Are you ready to stop
slogging through a quagmire of negative feelings? The
next time you sense your feelings getting ready to rumble,
reach out to your happiness ally. Let laughter turn off
the rumble of anger, resentment, criticism, and fear. Laugh,
just laugh, and tap into your innate wellspring of joy.
Are you ready to rumble
or to laugh?
C’mon,
Let’s Laugh!
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