A Parable on Mothering
by Temple Bailey
Good Housekeeping, 1933
(originally listed as "The
Young Mother")
The young mother set
her foot on the path of life. "Is this the
Long way?" she asked.
And the guide said,
"Yes, and the way is
hard. And you will be old before you reach the end of
it. But the end will be better than the beginning."
But the young mother
was happy, and she would not
believe that anything could be better than these years.
So she played with
her children, she fed them, and bathed them, and taught
them to tie their shoes and ride a bike and reminded them
to feed the dog and do their homework and brush their
teeth. The sun shone on them, and the young mother
cried, "Nothing will ever be lovelier than this."
Then the nights came,
and the storms, and the path was sometimes dark, and the
children shook with fear and cold, and the mother drew them
close and covered them with her arms, and the children said,
"Mother, we are not afraid,
for you are near, and no harm can come."
And the morning came, and there was a hill ahead, and the
children climbed and grew weary, and the mother was weary.
But at all times she said to the children, "A little
patience and we are there."
So
the children climbed, and as they climbed, they learned
to weather the storms. And with this, she gave them strength
to face the world.
Year after year,
she showed them compassion, understanding, hope, but most
of all unconditional love. And when they reached
the top they said, "Mother, we could not have done
it without you."
The days went on,
and the weeks and the months and the years, and
the mother grew old and she became little and bent. But
her children were tall and strong, and walked with courage.
And the mother, when she lay down at night, looked up
at the stars and said, "This
is a better day than the last, for my children have learned
so much and are now passing these traits on to their children."
And
when the way became rough for her, they lifted her and gave
her their strength, just as she had given them hers.
One day they came to a hill, and beyond the hill, they could
see a shining road and golden gates flung open. And the
mother said, "I have
reached the end of my journey. And now I know that the end
is better than the beginning, for my children can walk with
dignity and pride, with their head held high, and so can
their children after them." And the
children said, "You will always walk with us,
Mother, even when you have gone through the gates."
And they stood
and watched her as she went on alone, and the gates closed
after her. And they said, "We
cannot see her, but she is with us still. A Mother like
ours is more than a memory. She is a living presence."
Your Mother is always
with you. She is the whisper
of the leaves as you walk down the street. She is the smell
of certain foods that you remember, flowers you pick and
perfume that she wore. She is the cool hand
on your brow when you're not feeling well. She is your breath
in the air on a cold winter's day. She is the sound
of the rain that lulls you to sleep, the colors of a rainbow,
she is Christmas morning.
Your Mother lives
inside your laughter, and she is crystallized in every
tear drop. A Mother shows
every emotion, happiness, sadness, fear, jealousy, love,
hate, anger, helplessness, excitement, joy, sorrow and
all the while, hoping and praying you will only know the
good feelings in life.
She is the place you
came from, your first home, and she is the map that you
follow with every step you take. She
is your first love, your first friend, even your first enemy,
but nothing on earth can separate you. Not time, not space,
not even death.
from
the e-mail grapevine, original source unknown
P.S. Special thanks to a Journal reader who contacted us regarding the origin of this article. This prose is a work of Temple Bailey and was originally published in Good Housekeeping, 1933.) |