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Contributors




1. Surviving Holiday Stress
2. Designing with Antiques and Recyclables in the Garden - Let your garden reflect who You are
3. Interviewing a Babysitter
4. Lucky 13 – Beating the Odds for Marital Bliss

1. Is Following the Rules Still Worth It?
2. Women, Beauty, and the Workplace
3. Happy Holidays from Kuwait
4. Procrastination is a Waste of Time

1.NORTH CAROLINA BLISS GOES TO CANADA

2. Take Two Laughs and Think About It in the Morning


1. Either Way You Slice It, Understand Advertising Opportunities to Effectively Promote Your Company

2. Being an Effective Leader by Building Trust

3. "Nice" Doesn't Mean Good or Effective
4. I CAN ALWAYS GET A “REAL” JOB…AND OTHER LIES FROM THE CREATIVE ENTREPRENEUR

1. The 4W’s to Create Successful Space: A Time and Place for Productivity

2. Stick to Your New Year’s Resolutions by Understanding the Pitfalls
3. Nurturing Her Fellow Artists: Cheryl L. Weisz, author, The Artist Handbook
4. Seven Social Savvy Strategies for the Season

1. What is Your Name?
2. Blending Sacred Stuff from the Past: Making New Memories in the Present
3. Grief and Beyond—Some Facts about Suicide, Survivor Issues, Ways to Prevent Suicide, and National, State, and Local Resources

Habitat Charlotte’s Gift from the Heart Holiday Card Program

1. Mint Museums' Long Range Programs & Events Schedule

2. Mint Museums' Long Range Exhibition Schedule
3. Design Made in Africa, December – January 6, 2007 McColl Center for Visual Art
4. McColl Center for Visual Art December 1, 2006 - January 6, 2007

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Do You Truly Love Me?

At the end of the book of John, Jesus asks Peter three times “do you truly love me?” (John 21:15-18). Peter three times pledges his love to Jesus in response. This receives the surprising response to “feed my sheep” and “take care of my sheep.” I imagine there is a reason why Christ had to ask Peter this three times. Peter had just denied Christ three times before he was crucified, so I am sure that had something to do with it. But I also think that it has more to do with all of us who followed after Peter. I wonder at times how many times Jesus has had to ask me “do you truly love me?” for me to finally get it.

The challenge for us is to take notice of those who are in need, whatever the need is. We need to incorporate into our lives those who are the destitute among us, no matter where they live. We are not to ignore, deny, brush off, discount, avoid, or evade those who are in need. We are told by Jesus three times that if we truly love him we are to take care and feed each other.

In the gospels, Jesus always put an emphasis on taking care of others. Love for Jesus is defined by feeding the hungry, giving drink to the thirsty, inviting strangers into your home, giving clothes to the needy, visiting those in prison, and looking after the sick. This is how Jesus lived his life while he was here among us. His heart would go out to those in need as he was so filled with love and compassion for each and every person he met.

I heard somewhere recently that if each of us who have the financial means would just adopt one person we could end world hunger. Now, I am not sure if that really is true—but what if it is? What if all we needed to do was to help one other person on this planet? If you are like me, I feel like I need to help whole villages of people and so the enormity of the task seems to overwhelming and I end up helping no one. But if we took the mentality of just helping one person in need, I do believe we could turn this world around.

Jesus calls us to live radical lives of love towards each other. When I was sick last year I was overwhelmed by how many people reached out “to do” things for me—one girlfriend drove miles out of her way to go get me a milkshake at Arby’s because that was the only food I could keep down, one girlfriend took me to doctor’s appointments, several friends called during my moments of despair to cheer me up and to pray with me over the phone, and many, many friends brought over food and/or gift cards to various restaurants. Some friends also just came over to sit with me, and I realized for the first time how the gift of presence REALLY is a gift (a huge one, in fact!)! I will forever be grateful to these friends who defined for me what Jesus was talking about as they showed not only God’s love through their actions but also their love for me.

My prayer for 2007 is that we will choose each moment to live radical lives of love towards each other. I pray we say how much we love each other and how grateful we are for each other’s presence in our lives. I pray when we see needs that we realize it is a call to action to be a blessing to someone else. I pray we dare to live compassionate lives where the hurts of others are our hurts. I pray we can answer Jesus question to all of us “do you truly love me?” with a resounding “yes!”


Cari is currently at Duke Divinity in order to achieve her Masters of Divinity. She is also a part-time hospice volunteer. Prior to school, Cari took a year to volunteer full-time. Before that she was the VP of Employee Services e-business group with Fidelity for 2 years. She also worked at IBM for over 18 years in many roles from Human Factors Engineering to middle management in Human Resources (HR). Cari used to speak at numerous HR conferences about how to transform HR operations. She also led the Women’s Diversity Network Group at both IBM and Fidelity. Cari graduated from the University of Arkansas with a degree in psychology. She loves to hear from you - her e-mail is williscj@aol.com.